Tuesday, April 24, 2012

The Couple that Diets Together, Stays Together

Today is mine and Chris' 19th wedding anniversary.   While the modern gift theme associated with the nineteenth wedding anniversary is bronze, Chris and I decided we would go completely out of the box and forego any gifts for each other (we did just celebrate our B-days after all) and instead . . . . .  drum roll please . . .go on a diet together.  Woo Hoo! We're party animals aren't we?  We both have a few extra pounds we would like to shed and want to recommit to more healthy eating habits, so we are giving each other the gift of health.  Wow that sounded cheesy even to me.


In all seriousness, I can't believe it has been 19 years.  As I have said in previous posts, it seems like just yesterday.  I'm so honored to have Chris as my husband, best friend and father to our kids.  He is calm when I am anxious, strong when I am weak, and still so damn sexy!  I don't know what I would do without him and I look forward to many more years together.  Love you Babe!

T


Friday, April 20, 2012

Fabulous Friday {Gift Idea}

I love a bargain and at 50% off could not resist purchasing these pj’s. Honeydew intimates is one of my favorite brands so I’m sure these will not disappoint. With Mother’s Day right around the corner (hint, hint) any Mom would love to spend her special day relaxing in these comfy pajamas. Head on over to Nordstroms.com now though, as I’m sure they will not last.


http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/honeydew-intimates-love-lines-pajamas/3221149?origin=PredictiveSearch&resultback=1572#BVRRWidgetID

  T

Thursday, April 19, 2012

Class of 2012 {Dustin Update}



I was a little worried after committing to stay on top of the blog and my writing, that I would run out of things to post. Turns out the ideas are coming to me in my every day activities. Yesterday, Dustin's high school announcements arrived and as with Monday's update regarding Dani, I thought, well there's my next post!

So what's new with Dustin? Let's see . . . he turned 18 in October, so naturally, he is an "adult". Funny how teenagers think that just because they have turned this magical number, that they are all of a sudden an adult. Never mind the fact that they still rely on Mom and Dad to feed and cloth them, give them spending money, a car to drive, gas money, a roof over their heads, more money . . .you see where I am going with this? I can't blame him though, because shortly after I turned 18, I did truly believe I was an adult and left my home to move in with my boyfriend whom I had only known for 4 months. Did I just hear you gasp? Well this post is not about me, so let's not go there! Thank goodness that boyfriend turned into my husband of 19 years, or I am sure, I would have never heard the end it!

In addition to turning the all-mighty 18, and being less than 2 months away from graduating from high school, Dustin will soon venture off to college. As I opened the box of announcements yesterday, I am not going to lie, I thought to myself, "how did this happen?" I feel as if it was just a few weeks ago that he was a Freshman in high school, just a few months ago he was graduating from Elementary School and seems like just a few years ago he was the little boy bringing joy to his Dad and I with each new milestone he achieved. Naturally, I realized this day would come, but it kind of caught me off guard yesterday and the realization that our time with Dustin as a child is coming to a close. Soon he will be off away in college, forging new friendships and becoming even more of an independent man. Our relationship will slowly change over time from that of parent and child to a more adult relationship rooted in our mutual love and respect for each other. We are so proud of the young man he is and is on his way to becoming and his Dad an I thank God every day that as far as teenagers go, he has been relatively easy and we have survived these high school years somewhat unscathed. Note, I said "somewhat" and "relatively". Let's face it, a teenager is a teenager, they can be horrible, scary people! Dustin however; has surprised us with his maturity and determination. So where, you ask is Dustin going to college? Here's a hint . . .





My Mom's personal favorite . . .



My favorite (that's Dustin in the pic) . . .



Yep, our baby is off to Aurora, Illinois, a short 30 minute drive from downtown Chicago. He is attending Aurora University where he was offered a scholarship to play lacrosse. For those of you who don't know, my Mom is from Chicago and we still have family that live in Illinois. She could not get away from Chicago and their weather fast enough so it is ironic her grandson is attending college there. This however; was no small feat. When Dustin was first contacted about coming to play for Aurora I believe his exact words were, "hell no. There's no beach in Illinois." To which we replied, "Oh yes, there's a beach! Lake Michigan has lots of beaches." Which he then clarified, "there's no ocean in Illinois." Yes, our California boy did not want to leave his beautiful Golden State. We can't blame him, but kept after him to at least consider the awesome gift being offered to him. We finally convinced him to at least go visit and check the school out before writing it off. Once there, he fell in love with it all. The school, the coach, the team and yes, even downtown Chicago. While on his official visit, he and Chris went to a concert at the original House of Blues. It was easy to spot the California kid standing in line in his shorts and tank top in 20 degree weather!

So that's the latest and greatest with Dustin. You can expect a more tearful, insightful post as his high school graduation nears, but for now, we are so proud of the young man he has become, the hard work he has done and everything he has achieved thus far and look forward to the many exciting experiences and opportunities yet to come his way! Go Dustin!

T

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Monday, April 16, 2012

Methotrexate Mondays {Dani Update}


As I was preparing to give Dani her cocktail of medications she takes on a daily basis, I thought it was about time to update both family, friends and those in the China adoption community who follow my blog, on Dani's medical condition.

While Tuesdays in our home tend to be Taco Tuesday, Mondays for Dani and I are Methotrexate Mondays. Methotrexate is just one of the 6 medications Dani takes on Mondays. The remainder of the days she takes 5 medications daily, some twice daily.

I won't re-tell the entire, very long history, but to re-cap for those of you not familiar (you can always go back in time on my blog) with Dani's situation, here goes. We adopted Dani from the Special Needs program in November 2009. Her "special need" was that she was born with a cleft lip and palate, which we learned upon arriving in China to pick-up our princess, had been repaired by Love without Boundaries and they did a fantastic job.
In January 2010, Dani began experiencing episodes in which the side of her face (usually on/near her temple) would swell. The swelling would start out very faint, not noticeable to anyone but those who see her daily and slowly over the period of a week, progress until her eye was swollen shut. It would then take approximately 3 weeks for the swelling to subside and her face return to normal. This would occur every 4-5 weeks. See picture below.


Over the course of 2 years Dani was hospitalized many times so the doctors could run tests, take blood, perform CT scans, MRI's, take more blood, take muscle samples, treat her with IV antibiotics and oh yah take more blood. They shipped her blood and muscle tissue samples to labs in Texas, Maryland and even a lab in France. She was seen by ENT doctors, Allergy & Immunology doctors, Rheumatologists, Infectious Disease doctors, Hematologists, Dermatologists, Metabolic Neurologists, Pediatric Dentists, and Genetics. You name the sub-specialist and Dani had probably seen them! Needless to say the swelling never responded to any of the treatments and antibiotics never helped. So for 2 years our poor little girl was poked, put to sleep, operated on and yet she continued to experience the facial swelling episodes. It is important for me to point out that throughout all of this Dani was never in any pain. The swelling never caused her any pain or discomfort, she never had a fever, nothing. She was still the happy, very energetic little girl we brought home from China.

In December 2011, just 9 days before Christmas, Dani was experiencing one of the worst swelling episodes she had ever had and her Pediatrician sent us to the Emergency Room (again). Her one eye had already been swollen for about a week and the swelling was spreading to her other eye and my husband and I knew that by Christmas, it was likely that BOTH of her eyes would be swollen shut. This was just un-acceptable and in one last ditch effort to get help for our daughter and some medical direction from someone who would not just run a bunch of tests on our daughter, but truly manage her care and try to get to the bottom of what was causing her swelling, I contacted my former boss at Children's Hospital San Diego, fondly referred to as Dr. E. Dr. E. was so wonderful, so gracious and met us in the ER within minutes. Upon examining Dani, he had his suspicions of a possible disease (did I mention he is brilliant?) and asked if Dani had ever been placed on steroids for her swelling, which she had not. He suggested we try a short course of steroids. If the steroids worked, that would help determine what type of disease Dani had. All the while however, Dr. E. had his suspicions of what her diagnosis was. Within DAYS of being on the steroids, Dani's swelling started to subside! Fast forward a few weeks and thanks to Dr. E., our beautiful, happy little girl has a diagnosis, is on the appropriate medications and is seen by an equally brilliant physician each and every month. It was (and still is) the BEST Christmas present we could have ever asked for.

So, I'm sure you're wondering, what does Dani have? Dani has a rare auto immune disease called Dermatomyositis. The immune system is a group of cells that normally protects the body from infection. In autoimmune diseases like Dermatomyositis, however, once these cells turn on their infection-fighting process, they cannot turn it off. This process therefore damages the body instead of protecting it. One way the immune system cells fight infection is through inflammation (i.e. the swelling Dani experienced). But when the cells cannot turn off the inflammation process, tissues are damaged. So far, Dani seems to have a mild case of Dermatomyositis and has not experienced any of the "classic" symptoms such as muscle weakness, which made her case especially difficult to diagnose.

Again, despite all of the medical testing Dani has gone through, despite her hospitalizations and swelling episodes, Dani has truly been a joy in our life. We often said that we don't know how we would have got through this if she had been in pain or had not been the brave, happy little girl she is. As she seems to have a mild case of this disease, her prognosis for the future is bright. While she is on very aggressive, medications that can be tricky to manage at times, her Rheumatologist is hopeful that she will outgrow the disease in the next 3-5 years. We are so grateful to my former boss for stepping in and to her current Rheumatologist for the wonderful care they provide to us and Dani. So I will end with a picture of our beautiful little girl from this past Easter. Enjoy!

P.S. Yes, it is a real bunny rabbit!

T

Friday, April 13, 2012

Friday Fun-day!



OK, so technically the fun was yesterday, but let's not get hung up on technicalities . . . We had an awesome time with my sister and brother-in-law, our niece and nephew and friend Larry last night. We celebrated Chris' birthday with mexican food and margaritas (YUM!) as well as the last night in town for our family. They head back home to Mexico this morning. It is so wonderful to see the cousins all together enjoying each others company and being silly. Despite the long distance between us, I believe we have a nice rhythm, and everyone is able to pick up and connect as if we just saw each other yesterday. Luckily for all of us, we get to see them in just 2 short months when they return to celebrate Dustin's graduation from high school. Can't wait for more family fun! We love you guys! Below is a pic of the homemade chocolate cake that I made and Dani decorated.

T

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Happy Birthday to my Best Friend!



Happy Birthday to you! Happy Birthday to you! Happy Birthday Dear Chris! Happy Birthday to you! Yep, today is my hubby's birthday. Dare I say how old he is? Awww if I don't care about my age, I highly doubt he will care that I share with you that he turns 43 this year. Personally, I don't think he looks a day over 30 (which would make me not a day older than 27!). Happy Birthday Babe. I'm so honored to celebrate yet another birthday with you. Love you!

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Not So Taco Tuesday {Recipe}

Dinner on Tuesday evenings in our home usually consists of some sort of tacos. Last night however; I tried a new crock pot recipe and despite the not so delicious picture below (I believe Chris' exact words were "it looks like a pile of poo"), everyone loved the dish and more importantly for us Moms, it was super easy. I modified the recipe slightly by doubling the amount of garlic and increasing the parmesan cheese to 1 1/2 cup (my boys are 1/2 Italian after all!). It's a great dish for a cold evening or when you are craving "comfort food". It you give it a shot, let me know what you think. Enjoy!

Ranch Crock Pot Pork Chops & Garlic Mashed Potatoes



6 pork chops, 1/2 inch thick
2 packets dry Ranch Dressing Seasoning
(2) 10 oz. cans Cream of Chicken Soup
4 lbs peeled, cubed potatoes
5 Tbsp. real butter
1 c. fresh grated Parmesan cheese
6 cloves roasted garlic
1 – 1 1/2 c. warm skim milk (any milk will do, I just happened to use skim)
1 Tbsp. salt, or to taste
1 tsp. fresh cracked black pepper, or to taste
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1. Place pork chops, Ranch seasoning and soup into a medium sized crock pot over high heat for 4 hours or low heat for 6 hours.
2. Place potatoes into a large pot of cold water. Place onto stovetop over high heat and bring to a boil. Once water is boiling, cook for 10-12 minutes or until potatoes are fork tender. Drain and transfer to the work bowl of a stand or electric mixer. Mix on low until potatoes are mashed then add butter, parmesan, garlic, milk, salt and pepper. Season to taste if needed. For thinner mashed potatoes add more milk, slowly until your desired consistency.
3. Scoop mashed potatoes onto serving plates and top with pork chops and soup gravy from crock pot. Enjoy!

Monday, April 9, 2012

I'm B a a a a ck!



Yes, I have said that before, but this time I mean it. I feel blessed to have so many friends and family who actually miss hearing my ramblings. The past 2 weeks alone, I have been asked by several people when I am going to return to my blog. So here it is, I'm officially back and will do my darnded'st . . not sure that is even a word, but you get the idea. I have some ideas for possible twists and turns to add to the blog in the future, but for now while my daily life is pure chaos, I will keep my posts short and sweet. Oh, who am I kidding, I can never really keep them short. They will be short-ish! As always, there is a lot happening in the Bagalini family including some monumental changes and I would hate for anyone to miss out on any of it. So thanks for sticking around and encouraging me to keep writing. Talk to you soon!

T